The will is like a muscle; the more you train it, the stronger it gets. Everyone in your company has some level of muscle tone, and everyone has some willpower. If you haven’t been to the gym in years and don’t engage in regular exercise, you are probably pretty weak. If you haven’t spent any time exercising your will, it is probably weak as well.
The way to build will is simple. You use it. The best way is to set tasks that are just outside your abilities, that require greater focus, attention, and persistence, and then get them done. The secret is doing things with forethought and by design. It doesn’t do much will building to accomplish things by accident. You must decide that you’re going to do something at a certain time and with certain conditions of satisfaction, and then do it. That builds the will. Then you decide to do something else that’s a bit beyond your grasp, and you do that. More will. Over time, your ability to intend results and produce them is transformed. Instead of being like diffuse sunlight, your will acts as a laser beam: focused and coordinated and capable of great power.
Start the way beginning bodybuilders build muscle tone. They begin with a weight that they can lift but that exerts a strain, perhaps 25 pounds. They repeat that until it is no longer difficult, and then they move up to 30 pounds. They continue with that until it becomes easy, and then they move up again. After a time they’re lifting hundreds of pounds. You can build your organizational will the same way.
Start with something small. It doesn’t really matter what it is—it could be making a commitment to call a client at exactly 3:15 p.m. or visiting your gym for that long-needed exercise today at 6:30 a.m. sharp. Perhaps it’s sending a new business letter you’ve been putting off, or having one-on-ones with your team this week, no matter what. For some people it’s as elementary as getting to the office at a fixed time or starting and stopping meetings exactly on schedule. Begin anywhere; tell whomever you need to tell, and do it.
Take it to the next level. What recurring item do you typically start, then stop? What’s something that you want to do every week, but never do for more than two weeks in a row? It could be those one-to-ones. That’s what ordinary people do—they start, then they stop. But those with willpower simply decide. Then they do.
Pick one of those stop-start-stop-start things, put it on your schedule, and do it. You don’t have to commit forever; you can commit for the next four weeks. When you’re done, commit again. Go to the gym every day at the same time, 6:30 a.m., for the next four weeks. Each and every day, each and every week. And do it. Each time you decide and do, you are reinforcing and strengthening the power of your will. Make it through the next four weeks, and you can recommit and add something else. Over the course of time, you’ll build up a huge reservoir of power. Building your will is incremental, but the effect is cumulative, and ultimately you reach the tipping point where your will has an almost unbelievable effect on your business’s ability to produce results.
Get your team members involved as well. Talk to them about will and have them make small decisions. Then bigger ones. Then big ones.
There is one thing that will hamper the development of the will, and that is fooling around with the truth—anything from out-and-out lying to exaggerating or stretching the truth, even “puffery” and “loose interpretations.” Of course, this is just good business sense; stick to the facts, and everything will work out. But in developing your will, the truth works, and everything that’s not the truth works against you.
In The Most Famous Man in America, Debby Applegate reports that when Henry Ward Beecher was asked how he could accomplish so much more than others, he replied, “I don’t do more, but less than other people. They do all their work three times. Once in anticipation, once in actuality, and once in rumination. I do mine in actuality alone, so I end up doing things just once.” Beecher had the ability to concentrate his mind and focus his will on what he was doing at the moment, to the exclusion of all else. He applied his will to the problems before him; this gave him great productivity and power.
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